Understanding Men: What Women Need to Know About How Guys Think One of the most common questions I get from women sounds something like this:“How do I make a guy [fill in the blank]?” It could be “How do I make a guy like me?” or “How do I make him take me seriously, want […]
How to Stop Overthinking When Talking to Women During one of my recent dating seminars, a student asked me a great question: “Sometimes when I’m out meeting women, my mind goes a million miles an hour. I keep overthinking what to say next or what I should have done differently, and I get stuck in […]
Dealing With Haters: How to Stay Positive When Success Brings Negativity I’ll be honest — the past few months have been challenging for me. My life and business are growing faster than ever, but with that growth has come a lot more negativity, criticism, and hate than I’m used to handling. And I know I’m […]
Overcoming Shyness: How to Break Free From Social Anxiety and Start Connecting Sometimes you just don’t feel like going out.Or maybe, most of the time, you feel that way—but you know you should because deep down, you want to overcome shyness and become more confident. That paralyzing feeling of not wanting to go out isn’t […]
Speed Dating Tips for Women: How to Make a Great First Impression If you’ve ever thought about attending a speed dating event, you’re in for a fun experience—but also one where first impressions matter. To help you make the most of it, here are my best speed dating tips for women, based on years of […]
Invincible inner game is achievable with the right mindsets. Most men have the wrong kind of mindsets. They say to themselves, œWomen find me unattractive, I’m afraid of bothering women if I approach them, or I take rejection personally. If you constantly say these things to yourself or worry about them, they become truer in […]
Many people listen to affirmation tapes to improve their confidence and inner game. Inner coaching helps them incorporate powerful positive beliefs into their mind. An example of an affirmation is Women love it when I approach them or I am a prize and a catch to women. However, most people do not find success with […]
It can be pretty terrifying to approach a beautiful woman you haven’t met before and try to get a date with her. This fear can cause us to creep her out or worse, not approach her at all. You can learn all the fancy pick up lines and techniques you want, but what good is […]
When you approach a beautiful woman and you feel anxiety, it doesn’t help to tell yourself that you are the prize and that you are a catch to women while you grit your teeth and clench your fists in fear. If you don’t believe what you’re saying, you won’t ever improve. You can’t just cover […]
I was recently asked a question from a reader about asking a guy out. She wrote: “I was reading about your company, the dating coach thing.. so for some free advise..should a girl ever ask a guy out on a second date or just wait and see? p.s. im very single, do you set people […]
So, how do we approach dating? Maybe you have been single for way too long or you just broke up from a long-term relationship and want to get back into the market. The first thing you should do is some soul searching. You could also seek the help of a dating coach. You must approach […]
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. When I sat down to write this article for my good friend and dating coach Dan Silverman, the first question I asked myself is, “What exactly is inner game?” Oh, sure, I’ve seen the term thrown around enough and I’m sure many people reading […]
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. Most dating gurus advocate handling your approach anxiety and inner game by working on your outer game first. Dan Silverman refers to this as the “Outside-In Approach.” Gurus state that confidence will come by developing high competency in approaching women. Once you’ve done it […]
This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I’ve decided to talk about a topic that completely changed my self esteem with women when I first started getting into this game. I think that when you break it down, our entire society, self esteem with women, and even our reality as a […]
Anxiety with Women: Nature vs. Nurture This article was written by my former client, Tony V. Enjoy. I want to talk about a topic that’s been beaten to death somewhat. But I feel I need to get my point of view out there and shed some light on the topic of approach anxiety and anxiety […]
In November, I went through a hard breakup with my former girlfriend that totally changed my life. After two and a half years of living with each other and always being together, I was single again. It was a tough transition and I know many of you have come to me because you just got […]
Anxiety with women, particularly with approaching women you’ve never met before, is the biggest challenge most men face when they are trying to improve their inner game. It can cause high stress, anxiety, fear, depression, and leave you feeling drained at the end of the night. When tackling your approach anxiety, you have to begin […]
If you are looking to improve your inner game with women, follow these top 5 tips and you will build real, genuine self-confidence in ways that women will notice! Inner Game Tip 1: Create an exercise regimen and eat healthy. One of the greatest things you can do for your inner game is to exercise regularly […]
The following is a case study of a former student of mine who did dating coaching with me in 2009. This is Steve’s story: Steve’s Transformation: It all started when I saw Dan Silverman on MTV’s MADE in the Ladies’ Man episode with Richard. I saw him change that poor kid from an introverted Eagle […]
Once you have a woman attracted to you, it’s often not enough to get her to see you again. By not creating connection, she will just see you as the random cute guy who gave her validation one night. Some people feel that once she is attracted to you, this is the time to get […]
During your path to success at dating, you will endure a serious growing pain called a limiting belief. It is unavoidable, but as long as you don’t let a limiting belief hold you back, you will eventually excel. It helps considerably to learn to reframe a limiting belief, especially when you are feeling low. First, […]
There are so many things in what women like in men, that the list could go on forever. When figuring out what’s most important in what women like in men, you should focus on the first time she sees you, since oftentimes, you won’t get a second chance if you make a bad impression. As […]
Most men, even players who are good with women, don’t qualify or screen women to meet any kind of standards other than physical attractiveness. It’s important to screen women to fit your criteria for three reasons. 1. It says all the right things about you when you screen women. She will see clearly that you […]
Oftentimes, the only one getting in the way of successful relationships is ourselves. Negative thinking affects us all. For example, you may believe some of the following: ” I’m not attractive enough to get that person.” “You’re an idiot. You’re going to fail.” “You remember what happened last time you tried? You’re going to fail.” […]
Do you know what women want in a man? It can be ridiculously confusing since most women say what women want in a man is exactly the opposite of what they tend to be attracted to. On a fundamental level, what women want in a man is someone who is in control of himself and […]
Are you sick of having to choose between the same types of guys? On the far left end, you have the lovable loser ‘nice guy’ You know, the one that is so sweet to you and says all the nice things you’ve always wanted to hear, calls you six times a day, cries on your […]